This 27-Year-Old Woman Loves Bikinis, But Cruel Trolls Tell Her She’s Too “Fat” To Wear Them
“As a teen, I had accepted that I would never be seen as ‘feminine’ because the media tells us we must be small, dainty, cute and soft-spoken. Over the years it had been ingrained in me that to be feminine meant to be desirable and to be worthy of a good life,” writes the New York-based woman. “I’ve slowly freed myself from these toxic thoughts.”
Appearing on Dr. Phil to talk about body positivity, Bible explained she struggled with weight since her childhood. “At the age of 14, I was about 200 lb. I had this personal trainer that was not very nice. They’d tell me if I wanted friends, I’d need to lose weight, that no-one would ever love me if I’m fat.”
At one point, Bible shares she lost 100 pounds and weighing in at about 235 pounds; she says it “didn’t solve any of her problems,” and she was still unhappy “having the body everyone wanted.”
In a romantic connection, the lady is now trying to remind others that plus-size bodies are “hot” and “look good in a bikini.”
‘Look away’
More than 82,000 internet users have seen a new TikTok video in which Bible is shown donning a red string bikini in response to a troll who claims that “fat people shouldn’t wear string bikinis.”
“If you don’t like it, look away,” she captions the clip, where she playfully gazes into the camera and mouths, “I don’t care.”
Some fans were overwhelmingly supportive, expressing their gratitude for the inspiring woman. “I bought my first [bikini] because of you. Seriously,” writes one. A second shares, “You look amazing; I wish I had body confidence too.”
Online trolls are interspersed with supportive words, with many implying that she lacks self-respect.
“Well, you should care, that’s disrespectful to yourself,” writes one. A second asks, “Where’s your self-respect?” And another offers some advice, “I’m a big [woman] and I say, just because they make it in our size doesn’t mean [you] need to wear it. have some respect for yourself.”
Crippling complications
And though the “unapologetic fashion lover” consistently wows her followers with her fabulous fashion, she continues to be the target of trolls “hating on individuals with larger bodies.”
However, it can go beyond people merely body shaming the attractive woman, whose weight leaves her susceptible to a number of health issues.
“All I see is a lot of strain on her heart and joints, etc., but again, that’s her choice!” writes one user on Facebook. “However, the worry is when other health complications arise, such as diabetes, etc it just puts added pressure on our crippling [national healthcare]!”
A second netizen shares, “I don’t have a problem with body positivity unless it’s promoting a body composition with very serious health risks as the new normal.”
“I am a full believer in embracing inner beauty and that everyone is entitled to dress how they please but… she is heading for all manner of medical issues, from diabetes to heart failure and joint issues.” The comment continues, “I hope she still feels comfortable in her own skin when she is wheelchair or bed bound. It is so sad that she can’t see the damage she is doing to her health.”
Bible reminds the world, “Just because you’re thin doesn’t mean you’re better than me,” while ignoring health concerns raised by her followers.
She adds, “I am an unapologetic fat girl… You can take it or leave it because I’m always going to be happy with myself.”
Happiness is ultimately what counts, so if the Bible believes she has found it, we hope her health will allow her to continue to be happy.